There is a misconception that the ego inflates your pride and makes you so big headed you are blinded to reason. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Focused actions and those taken to follow the conscious coincidences that are provided by energy brings synchronicity, alignment and manifestation.
You see, confidence is not just a matter of appearance, it is the result of living your values and believing in and loving who you are. In order to be able to do this, you must first define who YOU are; as a unique, energetic, limitless being.
The ancient dichotomy between what is known and what is dreamt, intuition or sensing by instinct is found, in various forms, in every field of human intellectual endeavour.
Relax, understand that through every relationship come experiences and contrast for what we really, truly desire to make us happy.