This can also be translated to how we cause resistance to our desires being manifested. Lack of self belief or confidence is in itself fear.
Much of this ability comes when you have a rock solid foundation of belief, love and respect in yourself.
It is this disconnection that causes the frustration and the subsequent lashing out at those they feel coming from a higher frequency.
Strength to step away from conditioning and control around you; to stop listening and believing what others tell you and start being guided by your own intuition.
So anytime you are living at the behest or pressure from others, you are actually living out their life experiences, foregoing your own experiences.