We are all parts of the same energy, in fact every animate or inanimate thing is part of this energy.
You see anytime you are doing this, you are living in reaction to what you have been conditioned to believe.
It is unfortunate that so many still live in reaction to their external environment, which in fact perpetuates what you are currently experiencing.
All while you live for the expectations of others, you are aligning to their energy frequency, following their life experiences instead of your own.
It isn’t about confrontation or stealing away in the middle of the night, all conditions will change when energy is given the opportunity to transmute.